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This article, from the Times of India (yes, the India that created the Kamasutra, you know the people who invented interesting sex) basically suggests two major things:
- You should have sex three times a week to increase fitness and burn calories.
- If you are working out, jogging, walking, etc, that makes sex better.
- If you want to get some you have to act like you want some. That means foreplay fellas! Maybe it is a forgotten art, but you better dust off the manual and remember the things you did at the beginning.
- Schedule it if you have to! We are trained to think that if it does not happen organically then we must let go if it... HOGWASH (always wanted to say that). If you are busy and a slave to your calendar then make it work for you there is no shame in penciling in some nookie-time.
- Change your behavior, don't comment on hers. Take control of yourself, nothing kills the mood faster than making sex an obligation. Sweet talk, kiss, cuddle, do whatever it takes to make the situation to her liking.